it is real...lov it.but we cant stop the growing age.hav nice time of being sweet 21^^hope that u will hav nice dreams rather than 'mixed and jumbled' dreams=) more…
glad to see you back again and sounding so positive. so sorry to hear about your grandad though, especially as it was unexpected, death is a diffcult thing to come to terms with. don't think i would like working at morrisons - i don't even like shopping there, i am a tescos girl. write soon. more…
well vickie, haven't heard from you for ages, wondering how you are and what is going on with you, hope you had a nice christmas and that 2007 is a wonderful new year for you. more…
yes, there is always someone, ajn is right. you need to stop worrying about other people, concentrate on doing what you want to do how you want to do it, if that means reaching out to other people then do so - but on your terms, not selfishly, but not making yourself vulnerable, and even though its hard try not to tar everyone with the same brush, more…
hope your birthday was good and that you have started to feel better, birthdays are often a time when people feel low and depressed, all that passing time etc. you got mugged? how awful, did you report it? did you get hurt? i agree with ajns, the counselling will probably do you good if you go to a decent place, try and focus on the good stuff you more…
I'm also a person who deals with the public daily & have to maintain a friendly attitude that makes people feel at home & welcome. Getting evaluated on that is always nervewracking! Hope it goes well for you! :)
I'll pray for your "God Hunt" & hope that you find the Truth. I've been a Christian most of my life & I'm sti more…
Awww (hello again) too much alkeehol makes me like that too if I'm alone. Just have a little cry and drink more water. Glad you were able to feel better after talking to your brother * hugs* more…
i can understand how you feel about where home is - uni is ok, but it's kind of an in-between thing isn't it, haven't quite left home yet but haven't really set up your own home either. i guess it might help to get your head round the fact that this is a transient stage in your life and it will pass - sooner than you think or would like too!! i hop more…
when i have to deal with rude (and often drunk too) people i am overly nice, it really winds them up, evil laugh. i guess you could try taking on board what work said about making eye contact etc, that is a good thing to do generally, especially if you think about employment and future jobs etc. but don't focus on the negative stuff - what are your more…
i have to deal with the general public too, the friendly or pleasant ones are treated with politeness, respect and friendliness in return...the grumpy ones get a grumpy and curt response...it may be a fault but i'm quite good at being grumpy! :) more…
just wrote a really good comment and lost it because of this mad laptop, i am sure it has a mind of its own.
i agree with rob. man/woman is created to fellowship with God , we are spiritual beings, most people just don't realise it and try to fill their God shaped hole with other stuff - drinking, drugs, false religion etc. it surprises me th more…
ooh, vickie, you are all grown up!! our daughter just got her national insurance number, a similar, less scary, rite of passage i guess, the best thing is since she works for her dad she doesn't get paid, lol. i bet it's boiling in leeds, at least here we have a nice cool sea breeze. more…
I love going to bootsales and rooting around the boxes you find hiding under the pasting tables. I found a jigsaw once, and it was amazing, it took us ages to do.
Would you guess, there was one piece missing ?
The frustration we felt !
We felt cheated, angry, sad, all because of a jigsaw !
I realised later on in my life, tha more…
As for the comments it sounds like the cookie (the little bit of data that stores your login info) isn't working, the intranet might have high security settings, if you do the login on the top right of the page you want to comment in it might work?
I hope you find what you're looking for, or maybe even something that you werent looking more…
you're going to be living alone? that's a pretty big adjustment, but worth it if you ask me, no hassle, all your stuff will be just where you left it, you will be able to see the sink! moving house is very stressful, we have lived here for 20 years, i swore i was only going to leave in a box ;-), but we are talking about a change so we shall see. i more…
Aww hon :( It's never nice, just try to make sure you make the effort to keep in touch, the link may go after a bit but don't let it be said it was your fault it did, keep trying :)
Hope you have a great time at the BBQ, don't let the emotion stop you from having fun because it'll make a lot of good memories. more…
I agree completely, It's possible the thing I'm most grateful to the net for, simple easy communication and hopefully a bridge to keep communication ope, even when people live away.
Of course it's also an excellent tool for meeting great new people too :) more…
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In response to: "My Birthday" 804 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
Just relax and enjoy it, hope you have a really good day. more…
In response to: "My Birthday" 804 days old
by CloudCornerS2 [Member]
it is real...lov it.but we cant stop the growing age.hav nice time of being sweet 21^^hope that u will hav nice dreams rather than 'mixed and jumbled' dreams=) more…
In response to: "Update" 812 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
Glad things are going good :) more…
In response to: "Well...." 1036 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
Glad to hear hings are going well.
Sorry to hear about your Grandad, I was in the same situation a year and a half ago with my Dad, major shock. more…
In response to: "Well...." 1036 days old
by Jools61 [Member]
glad to see you back again and sounding so positive. so sorry to hear about your grandad though, especially as it was unexpected, death is a diffcult thing to come to terms with. don't think i would like working at morrisons - i don't even like shopping there, i am a tescos girl. write soon. more…
In response to: "A bit more of the story..." 1042 days old
by Jools61 [Member]
well vickie, haven't heard from you for ages, wondering how you are and what is going on with you, hope you had a nice christmas and that 2007 is a wonderful new year for you. more…
In response to: "A bit more of the story..." 1120 days old
by Jools61 [Member]
yes, there is always someone, ajn is right. you need to stop worrying about other people, concentrate on doing what you want to do how you want to do it, if that means reaching out to other people then do so - but on your terms, not selfishly, but not making yourself vulnerable, and even though its hard try not to tar everyone with the same brush, more…
In response to: "A bit more of the story..." 1121 days old
by Vickie [Member]
You make me feel better all the time ajn.
(-: more…
In response to: "A bit more of the story..." 1122 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
There's always someone out there worth it.
It's just a case of finding them... more…
In response to: "Oh dear!" 1152 days old
by Jools61 [Member]
hope your birthday was good and that you have started to feel better, birthdays are often a time when people feel low and depressed, all that passing time etc. you got mugged? how awful, did you report it? did you get hurt? i agree with ajns, the counselling will probably do you good if you go to a decent place, try and focus on the good stuff you more…
In response to: "Birthday" 1157 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
(sorry if I'm a lil late) Happy Birthday Vickie dear!
I'm sure your STAR thing will NOT fail.
*hugs* more…
In response to: "Birthday" 1157 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
Aww hon, keep happy, nothing is as bad as it seems! more…
In response to: "Oh dear!" 1167 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
Aww hon, good luck with the counselling, it's helped a good few friends of mine.
I hope you feel better soon hon and I hope your weekend is good.
Happy Birthday for Sunday. more…
In response to: "Customer service" 1172 days old
by MimiMEJKnowles [Visitor]
I'm also a person who deals with the public daily & have to maintain a friendly attitude that makes people feel at home & welcome. Getting evaluated on that is always nervewracking! Hope it goes well for you! :)
I'll pray for your "God Hunt" & hope that you find the Truth. I've been a Christian most of my life & I'm sti more…
In response to: "The story of thursday" 1195 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
Awww (hello again) too much alkeehol makes me like that too if I'm alone. Just have a little cry and drink more water. Glad you were able to feel better after talking to your brother * hugs* more…
In response to: "The story of thursday" 1195 days old
by aiqing [Member]
Hellozzz
From Singapore more…
In response to: "Again.." 1201 days old
by Jools61 [Member]
i can understand how you feel about where home is - uni is ok, but it's kind of an in-between thing isn't it, haven't quite left home yet but haven't really set up your own home either. i guess it might help to get your head round the fact that this is a transient stage in your life and it will pass - sooner than you think or would like too!! i hop more…
In response to: "Customer service" 1201 days old
by Jools61 [Member]
when i have to deal with rude (and often drunk too) people i am overly nice, it really winds them up, evil laugh. i guess you could try taking on board what work said about making eye contact etc, that is a good thing to do generally, especially if you think about employment and future jobs etc. but don't focus on the negative stuff - what are your more…
In response to: "Customer service" 1203 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
Hope it does hon, think of all the good things you've got going for you. more…
In response to: "Customer service" 1203 days old
by adamantixx [Member]
i have to deal with the general public too, the friendly or pleasant ones are treated with politeness, respect and friendliness in return...the grumpy ones get a grumpy and curt response...it may be a fault but i'm quite good at being grumpy! :) more…
In response to: "God" 1211 days old
by Jools61 [Member]
just wrote a really good comment and lost it because of this mad laptop, i am sure it has a mind of its own.
i agree with rob. man/woman is created to fellowship with God , we are spiritual beings, most people just don't realise it and try to fill their God shaped hole with other stuff - drinking, drugs, false religion etc. it surprises me th more…
In response to: "Untitled and mysterious" 1211 days old
by Jools61 [Member]
ooh, vickie, you are all grown up!! our daughter just got her national insurance number, a similar, less scary, rite of passage i guess, the best thing is since she works for her dad she doesn't get paid, lol. i bet it's boiling in leeds, at least here we have a nice cool sea breeze. more…
In response to: "God" 1211 days old
by roblayton [Member]
I love going to bootsales and rooting around the boxes you find hiding under the pasting tables. I found a jigsaw once, and it was amazing, it took us ages to do.
Would you guess, there was one piece missing ?
The frustration we felt !
We felt cheated, angry, sad, all because of a jigsaw !
I realised later on in my life, tha more…
In response to: "God" 1215 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
As for the comments it sounds like the cookie (the little bit of data that stores your login info) isn't working, the intranet might have high security settings, if you do the login on the top right of the page you want to comment in it might work?
I hope you find what you're looking for, or maybe even something that you werent looking more…
In response to: "Lately" 1223 days old
by Jools61 [Member]
you're going to be living alone? that's a pretty big adjustment, but worth it if you ask me, no hassle, all your stuff will be just where you left it, you will be able to see the sink! moving house is very stressful, we have lived here for 20 years, i swore i was only going to leave in a box ;-), but we are talking about a change so we shall see. i more…
In response to: "Lately" 1225 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
Sounds good, enjoy your freedom! :D more…
In response to: "*shuffles feet*" 1234 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
Hehe, yes, more dedication in the future ;)
I'm glad you're feeling hopeful for the future, if you don't expect good things to happen there's a chance they'll pass you by without you noticing.
And you will have good things. more…
In response to: "Last night" 1255 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
Aww hon :( It's never nice, just try to make sure you make the effort to keep in touch, the link may go after a bit but don't let it be said it was your fault it did, keep trying :)
Hope you have a great time at the BBQ, don't let the emotion stop you from having fun because it'll make a lot of good memories. more…
In response to: "Reflections on People" 1259 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
I agree completely, It's possible the thing I'm most grateful to the net for, simple easy communication and hopefully a bridge to keep communication ope, even when people live away.
Of course it's also an excellent tool for meeting great new people too :) more…
In response to: "Phone" 1260 days old
by ajnspencer Pro
Hurrah!
Dunno what I'd do without my phone, it's a lifeline! :D
Sounds good, good luck with the work! :)
Andyx more…